CarrollBlog 7.9
"She believed it is almost always something small or unexpected that ends a relationship. By and large the hammer blow does not come from things like finding out your partner has been unfaithful, or that they become a monster behind closed doors. Those revelations may knock you to your knees, but it is actually seeing the secret snapshot of them together with the other person, both looking so happy, so completely stoned on love or sex, that finishes it. Or the small wicked smile on their face after they have been intentionally cruel to you. The end, like God, is in the details."
from the new book
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a good one from RPC:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2mTLO2F_ERY